As William Shakespeare once penned in the mouth of Juliet Montague, “Parting is such sweet sorrow.” How true that felt for us as we said our goodbyes (for now) with all of you at Valley Bible Church. Sorrow as we think about our time apart and all that we will...
Rejoicing with Manly Firmness
One of my favorite phrases from the Declaration of Independence is found in the fifth of the “Facts” given to support the American departure from the British Crown. In this particular remonstrance, the founders complained that King George had “dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions...
We Do Not Fight Alone
In our text this week Paul was not holding back. Like a coach inspiring his players for a difficult second half in a championship game, Paul calls upon Timothy to give everything he has in service to the Lord and to the church. Flee, pursue, fight, take hold of, keep...
Never Let Money Be the Bottom Line
The goal of a Christian counselor is to exhort Christians to apply the Scriptures to everyday situations. Over the years, I have adopted a principle that I often employ. It is a distillation of many Scriptures about money—given to us by Jesus and the apostles, stated in wisdom literature, and...
The Gospel & Memorial Day
Memorial Day, the last Monday of May, is a day to honor men and women who died in combat while serving our country in the military. Originally called Decoration Day, it was a day set aside to honor the soldiers of the Union army who were killed during the Civil...
A Badge of Honor
We’ve all been on an airplane, waiting for takeoff, when the flight attendant begins the safety brief. When she gets to the part about oxygen masks, she will say, “If you are traveling with a child or someone who requires assistance, secure your mask on first, and then assist the...
Four Questions for the Faithful Servant
On Sunday, we looked at God’s plan for the healthy functioning of the church according to the contributions of each part of the body. As a reminder, hear again the words of Paul: Ephesians 4:11–16 11And He gave some as apostles, and some as prophets, and some as evangelists, and...
Biblical Counseling at VBC
Biblical counseling is the guided process of applying the wisdom of God to the difficulties in our lives. It acknowledges that the Bible is inspired by God and is profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be adequate...
You Are Not Your Trauma
It is no accident that the question of identity is a central battleground in our culture. We have become a people who believe our identity is as malleable as our moods, where the only rules are what we feel will bring us happiness. The trouble with that is, of course,...
Easter Was Only the Beginning
Easter is a uniquely satisfying holiday. It comes with a sense of finality and accomplishment. Thanksgiving, the 4th of July, and even Christmas are days that mark beginnings. They are memorials to events that were laden with expectation. Easter, on the other hand, celebrates triumph. It marks completion. What the...
Next Week
“It’s been quite a week!” Some people say that after a particularly eventful week. They may have traveled, been ill, experienced some misfortune, or just had a series of exhausting events. Everyone has them; when we do, we can’t wait for next week. So, consider the week that Jesus had...
Through the Lens of Grace
“Do not sharply rebuke an older man, but rather appeal to him as a father, to the younger men as brothers, the older women as mothers, and the younger women as sisters, in all purity.” In 1 Timothy 5:1-2, we see Timothy addressing his fellow believers with the need to...
An Old Pattern of Young Patterns
On Sunday we looked at Paul’s timeless encouragement to a young pastor, Timothy, to ignore criticisms of his youthfulness and instead demonstrate maturity in character. Let no one look down on your youthfulness, but rather in speech, conduct, love, faith, and purity, show yourself an example of those who believe....
Growing Up in Godliness
One of the fun things to watch as a new baby develops is the progression in their diet. We have two grandchildren who are currently in that stage. Watching them eat squash, bananas, or sour fruit for the very first time is fascinating and hilarious. The look on their faces...
In Defense of Marriage
Marriage has always been under attack. We may think that this is something new, only since the advent of no-fault divorce and same-sex marriage. But marriage has always been attacked and twisted by our enemy. One of the heresies the Apostle Paul addressed in the book of 1 Timothy was...
Men Who Leave a Mark
About 300 years after the life of Christ, a thriving church in the city of Laodicea was remodeling. Every aspect of the church architecture was carefully considered, from the orientation of the building, to the number of pillars, to the designs on the walls and alcoves. Symbols representing the disciples...
VBC Elders Q&A
In recent weeks, VBC has been studying the offices of Elder and Deacon in 1 Timothy. Chapter 3 gives us a breakdown of the qualifications for those who are qualified to serve as elders and deacons. We have taken this opportunity to outline the New Testament teaching on eldership and...
Pray for Your Shepherds
What is the most important thing you can do for your spiritual leaders? One might think showing support, encouraging, or volunteering to serve is most important. But the most important thing you can do for your church leaders is to pray for them. 1 Timothy 2:1-2 urges Christians to pray...
Come & Worship
My favorite Christmas hymn is “Angels From the Realms of Glory.” I love the tune; I love the words. Each stanza progressively tells the story of redemption. It is rich in biblical allusions, from creation to the birth of Christ to the return of Christ. On December 24, 1816, James...
Our Favorite Things
Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens/bright copper kettles and warm woolen mittens/brown paper packages tied up with string/these are a few of my favorite things … ’Tis the season for Christmas music, and for some reason, this classic from The Sound of Music has been folded into the rotation....